She needs to get a damn job!!! When she was younger she had the chance to go to college and trade school and do something with her life but did she? No! She dropped out and messed up her scholarship and that pisses me off every day because there are people in this world who would kill to go to college and do something with their life but never get the chance because of financial issues. To make things worse she still doesn't have a career and she talks about how she wants to go to school to be a nurse and how she doesn't want to work a minmum wage job! That is utter bulls**t. I haven't seen her lift a finget yet to apply for college. So what if you have to work at McDonalds? Do what you have to do to accomplish your goals. Talk means nothing! Then what really makes me mad is she put my dad on child support while he's trying to get my grandmother's house fixed up. He didn't go to college either but he works hard everyday and does what he has to do to get by. Worse still the first thing she does when she gets the money is put it down on a car!!! Wtf!!!! That money could have gone to my college education!! It's a good thing I'm trying to find a job because I would never be able to go to college at this rate. I'm 18 now so I'm glad that my dad is off child support so he can start getting my grandmother's house fixed instead of giving money to an idiot who is going to use it to pay bills because she's too much of a ***** to get a job instead of giving the money to the child (me) for her education. I could see if my mom did have a job and she had to dip into the money now and again but she doesn't. And her stupid little boyfriend who is also helping with the bills isn't guarenteed to be around forever. I hate my mom so much!! She just makes me mad with the stupid s**t that she does!!|||Telling your mother that you hate her is not going to help anyone. It's sounds to me like you are more frustrated with the situation and taking it out all on your mother. Has she told you of the circumstances in her past that caused her to drop our of college? Perhaps there was something going on that forced her to drop out and she just never got back on course. If you want her to change her ways you need to approach her in a caring way. Having a daughter hate her will not help. It seems right now your mother is making some poor decisions. Maybe instead of hating her you should feel sorry for her. I'm sure she didn't plan to have her life end up like this. Talk to your mother in a caring way that you want her to succeed, but currently you're not seeing that happen. Tell her that if she decides to go to school to be a nurse that you will support her, but that the path to eventually being a nurse may require her to work a minimum wage job to pay the bills. No one wants to work a minimum wage job, but it would just be temporary. She needs your support not your hate. As for money for your college education. Sure, it would be nice if she paid for your education but a lot of parents don't pay for their kids college. It's not something they have to do. You say you want your mother to work for her money, but right away you're saying she should pay for your education instead of you paying for it. Get a job and start paying for your education. Maybe if your mother sees your example she will start to reevaluate some of her choices.|||That's more like a rant not a question. Don't tell her you hate her. She is a human being too and it's her life, she can do what she wants with it. Just try telling her the things that bother you that she does.|||YOU got a big mouth! College is not for everyone! It is very expensive! You want to go, and you have the gall to complain?? Why don't you get your (Bleeping) butt into gear and show respect to your mother! Be thankful she managed to raise you!|||Instead of whining and complaining to us, why don't you get your own job and work your way through college? Maybe you'll learn to appreciate it instead of being a spoiled little ***** and ranting on Y!A.

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