im 21 and my bf is 29 we have a great relationship....this is more of a personal issue. so becauee of the age difference hes all ready experienced most things that i want to ( and this is aimed mostly at traveling ) it seems like whenever i wanna do something new...hes all ready done it.....likw going to new york, dc, restaurants and stuff around here. now its not that im jealous i think maybe its a?little disappointing that i?feel like i cant experience those things with him. now he is more then willing to do these thinbs with me again because he knows i want to, but it seems just not the same. of course there are things we can do?that he hasnt butnit seems like the main things i wana do....hes done, and it?also makes?me a little uncomfortable sometimes because?hell tell me he wants to do somethimg woth me that hes done before with an ex because it was fun and id love it....the jealousy comes out a little bit then when i here fun and ex in the same sentence lol but whe i tell hom about?it he thinks its silly andbi shouldnt worry. i agree but is it normal? maybe is there a betttrr way to look at it so i can feel a little bit better?|||Well yes, it isn't going to feel the same, and if you do go with him to places he has already been it might take away from the overall experience. But I still think you should try it, just think, you and him are spending time with each other, away from home and others. Yes you are going to feel jealousy and thats normal, if you weren't then that wouldn't be. :P It's just because you wanted to do it first with him, and seeing as he had fun with someone that wasn't you then you start to get a little jelous. So just look at it like this when you are spending time with him or doing what he has did before, you are together....you and him.....not him and his ex. And the more fun you have the less he will think about the fun he has had with his ex and more about the fun he wants to have with you. Soon, maybe, he will stop comparing the time you want to spend with him to the time he has spent with his ex. I hope this helps and just message me if you want my opinion on an other question.|||there is no reason to feel jelous... you got to see where he is coming from... going and doing all of those things he done before with someone else should be a good thing because now... instead of having a memory at the place with an ex... now he'll have it with u and erase her :] and i know it sucks dating someone older that has done all these things before but if he is at least willing to go there and do those things again then it should be all good... who knows... he might have an even better time because you are there :]

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