international house: 14 and going to be a bridesmaid? first off, im not obsessiong over this or "worried"...if im 14 and was asked to be a bridesmaid, would i be junior or a normal adult one? i havnt even met the bride yet, since its my brothers fiance and they live like 6 states away. i already love her and she loves me but im not sure if shes going to think im immature or not to be an adult one. i dont want to be a junior bridesmaid,they lead the bridal procession or whatever? please tell me what they do and where they stand etc. iv been told i act 16/look 16. im not immature at all, only towards my brother, well cus i love him and miss him. they havnt even kissed yet, theyve been datind for lik 4 months and im so proud of him for being as pure as possible with her. they in school at kansas city for media apprenticeship, hes 20 and shes 23. thanks. websites wud be helpful too :D Additional Details i honestly cant belive someone would curse their relationship as bad as u guys did. i KNOW they will be together for years and years. my pastor knew his gf for 3 weeks before they married. they still together and now theyre lik 70. IHOP (international house of prayer) is an amazing miracle. i wasnt saying i was going to try to be an adult. i dont remember writing it anywhere in this question. i have size 34 d boobs so i dont think ill fit in little kid dresses :)|||you'll be able to fit into regular bridesmaid's dresses, they just may have to be altered- which is no big deal. Don't worry, be yourself, and you sound very mature, so I don't think you have to worry about the bride thinking you're immature. It's very sweet of you to care so much =)|||you're welcome! =) Report Abuse |||I think if you were call a junior they must feel you'll fit in a junior size? What ever yes its an honer to be asked Iv been a few my self .Once my boyfriend at the time sister asked me to be Maid of honer That was a really big deal Especially when she had 6 sisters Just have fun ,don't catch the bouquet YOUR WAY TO YOUNG!|||Id say your no longer a junior bride when you stop wearing kiddie clothes. Either way when ive seen it done, they've still had an escort. But Id talk to your new SIL to be about the details. Also I think you might be thinking of a junior bride- not a junior bridesmaid- they're totally different. :-) Oh a shout out to Kansas City- my home town!!!!|||im surprised someone like you who thinks knowing someone 4 months and then marrying them is a good idea would actually put your bra size on the internet|||your age doesn't matter, your probably going to be an adult bridesmaid. your only a junior bridesmaid if your like under 10 but since your 14 your going to be an adult bridesmaid. good luck P.S you should ask your brother and soon to be sister in law too. it's there wedding so see what THEY want|||Oh honey, you sound very mature! I doubt she will think anything of it. I am pretty sure you are probably an adult bridesmaid if she didn't specify which one. Don't worry! She will tell you where to stand and whatnot and what to do. :) That is what rehearsals are for! Yay! But honestly, it really doesn't matter if a couple is together for 10 days or 10 years before they get married, if God says it is right, it is. I pray they have a happy and truly blessed marriage. Good luck! And stop stressing so much!!! Lol.|||You need to talk to your brother's fiancee about her plans for the wedding. Each bride is different, and will have different ideas for her particular wedding. SHE is the one who will decide what you will wear, and what you will do. I had a junior bridesmaid (13) and she wore the same dress as the rest of my bridesmaids, other than my matron of honor. The ONLY difference was that her gloves were the short variety, and the others had the elbow-length ones. Being a bridesmaid is an honor, don't think about what you want, think about how you can help make this a special day for your brother and his new bride, which is how you will show your maturity. Below are some links with advice and duties of a junior bridesmaid. Have fun!